None of my parents have no driving experience. My elder brother (26) is a beginner who is learning to drive a car without making mistakes. I'm (25) also a beginner but I know less than him. He learnt driving for 10 days from an instructor when we did not had a car (4 months ago). After owning a car, he drove the car for 6-7 times. Out of 7 times, he damaged vehicle 3 times (I mean dents, scratches). He takes out vehicle once a week.
Whenever my brother takes out his car for practice, I feel super stressed. I fear he may bump into the divider or any standing vehicle or pedestrian. There are many vehicles of others parked in our society, that is why I am afraid if my bro bumps into their vehicle. Kids of our society also play at 7am and after 4pm. Traffic in roads increases after 7am. School vans enter our society after 6am which makes extremely difficuly for my brother to take out his vehicle out of society as well as parking (there are no parking space in 12 houses including ours) outside our home while returning.
I have very low confidence in my brother. I feel like we both are incapable of driving. We had to purchase a car because we also have a dog. I see less educated people younger than me driving car perfectly. If we remain afraid of hitting vehicles/people or wrecking our own car, we won't learn. It is necessary for us to practice driving to become a better driver but the problem is that we may end up hitting our vehicle even more. People learn driving so easily but we struggle a lot. I don't know what is wrong with our brains.
We don't want to call the instructor again to help my brother learn well. We don't want to throw 4,000 rupees again (charge of instructor) as it puts strain on our monthly budget.
I belong to Lucknow.
